So you want to build your self-confidence to achieve your ambitions of life. You have applied several tips and tricks but could not have succeeded in your effort. You might have taken sessions with psychiatrist to build self-confidence but you failed in your every attempt. Ok, don’t worry you landed here at right place and with little effort you will become a self-confident person. You just need to follow these tips and believe in yourself.
Where is the problem?
This is the main question if you want to build self-confidence. Why you lack confidence? Is there any bitter background from your past? Or because of several failures in your life you lost it. Whatever is the reasons now you must remove that reason. For this you don’t have to do any lengthy session. Nor you have to do any kind of mental exertion. You just need to realize whatever happened to you in the past is because of certain reasons. Fault does not lie in you. There were one or more than one reasons behind your every failure in the past. Otherwise you tried your level best but could not have succeeded. So you gave your best possible but other factors were not in favor of you. This should be now your mindset if you really want to build self-confidence and grow in your rest of life.
You are not alone
Success and failure are two sides of a same coin. One has to succeed and other one has to lose. This is the principle of life. You are not alone who failed several times. There are millions of people who fail daily but try again daily. This is the spirit of struggle and you must understand it. Failure is the booster of every success. One can never feel the pleasure of success if he did not have failed earlier. You cannot feel the taste of sweetness unless you taste sour first. So this is the basic rule to build your self-confidence by just thinking, so what if I failed several times; how come I would enjoy my success if I would not have been failed.
Keep struggling regardless of results
You come in this world not to win or lose. You are born to work, to do struggle and to keep moving. So you should simply keep doing struggle and forget about success. Make your struggle in the right direction and keep reviewing it. Give your best and leave the rest on Allah. If success is in your fate nobody can deprive you of it. Your job is to keep struggling and keep examining how you are going. Rest is the job of your fate. If you believe in fate it means you are a rational person and ultimately you will succeed. The only need is to be patient and never be frustrated over your previous failures. This must be a guiding principle of your life. This is also the main source to build self-confidence and success in your plans.